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Ups and Downs
Welp.. it’s been a tough couple of days in polyland with a few very exciting and wonderful times. I think people get the impression that poly is all about the sex. It’s at least somewhat about the...
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Musing.. just musing…
I’m a happy girl. I just am. I feel good today and generally good most days. I’m musing a little though. I had a conversation recently that kinda raised a little thread of desire. I’m feeling a...
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It’s Too Soon for Sex
I never thought I would say it. I’m not feeling very sexual all of a sudden. I generally go fairly quickly with people I date and want to have sex with. When I am attracted and they are attracted and...
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Finito
I think this is the last post specifically about Great Date. He has asked me today to not talk about him any more in my blog. Honestly, I’ve agonized about this a bit, but I think I’m going to try to...
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Uh oh. Resigned.
I’m laying on the bed in my play space, and I’m realizing I’m really doing this. I’m separating from my husband. I’ve talked to a couple of people today and oddly I’m sad and it sucks, but I’m...
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Oh. Dear. God. Yes.
It’s been a fuck of a week and a really marvelous weekend. I’m writing a blog with my blogger beau. Don’t you just love it? He says it’s almost self referential.. you know.. bloggers blogging about...
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The Purple People Pleaser
It’s time for a sexier, or at least more informative about sexy pursuits, post. How about the Violet wand? Cleveland is really cute when he blushes, and I think this one might make him blush. In...
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Blue Flame
I have to introduce a new character. I’m going to call him Blue. Someone else apparently blogged about or blogs about him and calls him Blue Flame, so I’m stealing it. We’ll call him Blue for short....
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You Wanna Stick a Needle in WHAT!?!?
I think I’m having a midlife crisis. Or maybe it’s that thing you go through when you are getting divorced from your decade long relationship and you are an adult with no one to weigh in. I’m getting...
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The Kink Club
I’m going to talk about how I got kinky and how I’m exploring that now. I’ve had a resurgence of my Dom quest. Ever since I broke things off with Kinky boy I’ve been on and off craving exploring more...
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Creep at the Sex Party
I went to my first event at the local kink club. It was a midweek sex party/bdsm party that is usually separate but got smooshed together because there were so few people at the club due to it being...
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Surprise and Yummy Plans
Hmm.. Cleveland surprised me a little. Good times. Yesterday Cleveland showed up to go to Trivia with me and Peaches and Traveler and his wife. We had about 10 minutes till we had to get ready to go...
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Opening Up To Possibility
I feel a time of growth.. of openness to thinking in new ways and to embracing new things. It’s taking all sorts of routes. I’m making changes, big and small. Some of these are little things,...
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Epic Date
I got to meet a really sexy amazing fun friend and her Hubby from Canada this past weekend. On Friday Traveler and I got to have drinks with her and her Hubby, and on Saturday Cleveland and I had...
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Fuck Me. No.. really.
I need. Today was the big rehearsal/planning cluster for my big project at work and I returned to the office after an all day stress-fest tired and hungry. Hubby called. He asked some businessy stuff...
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Adjustment
I’ll admit it. I miss HER. We weren’t dating, but she was one of my most satisfying relationships. Maybe 50 times this weekend I thought.. OH! I have to tell her!!! I haven’t worn a dress in...
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Favorite Porn
The topic came up around the table about porn. Traveler’s wife asked Cleveland over our drinks if he was a porn aficionado. I tried to keep my face neutral and succeeded for about a half second. I...
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Try It. You’ll Like It.
I went to a “tasting” event tonight at the local kink club. It’s where a number of “tops” set up stations and do certain kink techniques. It’s a great way to learn new techniques and to sample things...
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Little Bits
I haven’t written this week because I haven’t had much to say and didn’t have any burning topics. I thought I’d do a quick little bits and pieces post though of little things that weren’t a whole...
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Podcast! Going to the Swing Club for the First Time
Here it is. It’s podcast 8 – The First Trip to the Swing Club. Cleveland and I talk about our hopes and expectations before my first ever trip to a swing club!...
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